Stories are some of the most powerful teaching tools we have. In “The Things Kids Learn Today: Gender Identity and Expression,” Victoria Range-Carr introduces us to Johnnie, Mare, Don, and Ella four fictional children who reflect the very real diversity of gender expression and identity.

• Johnnie: A boy who enjoys sports and meets his parents’ traditional expectations.
• Mare: A girl who thrives in social settings and embraces her femininity.
• Don: Assigned female at birth, Don feels most confident expressing traditionally masculine traits.
• Ella: Assigned male at birth, Ella courageously embraces her identity using pronouns she/her/hers.

Each of these stories challenges assumptions and invites readers especially parents and teachers to see children as unique individuals rather than fitting them into narrow boxes. For some, these stories may mirror their own experiences. For others, they provide empathy and perspective.

By engaging with these narratives, families can activate dialogue, normalize diverse experiences, and support children in their journeys of self-discovery.

Use these stories to spark conversations at home, in classrooms, or in youth groups. Victoria’s book offers guidance for turning storytelling into understanding.